Valentine - to celebrate or no?

This is always the tricky question 

which can made your life so miserable (miserable = in hell)

not matter you're single, in a relationship or hitched

single : keep saying no one want them, hiding in room on valentine day, posting #foreveralone and bla...bla...bla..., sound like it's the end of the world

in a relationship: want to prepare what?? erm, what surprise??? this expensive.. that expensive... restaurant fully booked..arggghh~ *pulling hair*

hitched: still need celebrate ah?? every year also celebrate, dunno what to plan loh... one rose is RM10 leh!!! better save some money~ and those who have a baby?? even better!!! no need plan~ no time ma...

well, these situation didn't happen to everyone, just most of us only (and I know you're one of them)

FYI: I believe some of your girlfriend must have said something like this : " Dear, please don't waste money on flower and celebration on Valentine, ok?" 

YES!!!

they did, right? BUT if you're going to do nothing, please prepare to face the "silent killer". Your girl will stop talking to you but keep pretending nothing happen (well, I'll do the same thing)

well, you can't blame them~ It's normal for girls to be emotional and rational on the same time. they're born with it~

we doesn't want you to waste money but we couldn't believe you're not putting any effort in creating something special

So my advice here is: You doesn't have to spent a lot of $$ to make her happy on Valentine, you just have spent some effort like~

1. You can write a love letter, if can add some poems. use some fancy paper, spray them with your cologne or perfume so it can remind her about you when she open the letter and write down what your feeling after being together for this period of time. (trust me, girl love it when you write something personal to them)
2. COOK !!!. which ever guys who can cook will melt a girl heart!! It doesn't mean you need to be a perfect cook. You just need to learn something simple and arrange it with some cute heart shape design

Nah, I'm sure you can cook hotdog loh~ *remember, it's all about the effort*

   

   3. SMS~ the easiest and you can be very creative in these. you can send a message to her on every hour with something special not the typical " Dear, what are doing now??". Try something more creative like "8.30 am, this moment I wish to be awake by your side and have breakfast together for every single morning / 9.30 am, this moment both of us might be busy with our job but I want you to know that I'll always support you no matter what are you facing". this not only tell her that you remember her every moment but you cherish every moment you're with her. One of my friend's bf is creative enough to use her most idolised singer song name to compose a love sms to her. But make sure she is not the busy type, if not anyone also will go crazy with so many sms.

This is same for girls too, you can make something special for your boyfriend too. It's not the guys responsibilities for planning Valentine Day. Maybe, you can be the one who buy him flower #trollface~ hahaha

but it's really a must to celebrate Valentine on Valentine Day??? for me, NO~ 

you can celebrate it everyday if you want, no need to let those businessman getting richer because you celebrate on that day

 but it's important to put in some efforts for Valentine Days?? YES~

girl, doesn't need flower, or ring to be happy but she definitely need you to put in effort and make every single day even more special

and Congrat to #foreveralone, you just need to hide in your room and see all those lovey-dovey picture in facebook. I'll be joining you on that day

#togetheralone ^o^